Rockin' The Rainbow: Moving Again????????????

Rockin' The Rainbow: Moving Again????????????

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Monday, November 17, 2008

Moving Again????????????

I don't even want to go into all the details with what is going on with my g/f but she called me freaking out today about her new job. There are two people there that hate her and are making things extremely difficult. This is not a situation where you can just ignore it and hope it goes away. She has to work with these folks closely.

So she calls me at lunch today to tell me that she has sent in her resume to yet another job in...........get this............MONTANA!

As much as it pains me, I may have to put my foot down this time. Back in 2004 I sold my house for next to nothing just to get out of it to move with her to Colorado. We were there 2.5 years and she decides she needs to go home to take care of her mother that just had open heart surgery. Understandable. She moves in with her mom in Washington and I move back home to Missouri. We were apart for a year and she moved back here for a job. We had been remodeling her house for me to move in with her when she up and decides to take this other job out of state. I told her to go, make sure she likes it and if all is good I will move up there with her in the spring. I guess now it looks like I made a good decision not to quit my job and move with her like she wanted me to.

I don't think I could handle living in Montana. I love her so very much but I just don't think I can continue picking up and moving every 2 years or less to make this relationship work. I was just reading Real Live Lesbian's post about her brunch and football party and I thought to myself I have always wanted to do something like that but the majority of my cookbooks are still packed in boxes in my garage, along with most of my cooking dishes and I have hardly any furniture because I never bought anything really nice because I did not want it to get ruined with all the times I move around. I have football parties that consist of ordering Dominos pizza and most of my guests have to sit on the floor.

So I am sad tonight because I know if she cannot get things worked out with her new job, she will quit and move to Montana and I don't think I have it in me to move again.

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